true love theory
Journal Entry: Tue Aug 8, 2006, 6:18 PM
true love theory
ive now recognized something important in love
when u start theres a chemical reaction inside u
a spark and a flames that starts
a feeling thats undescribable that only the heart can explain
as time passes the flame burns brighter
the person is painted in your memories and occupies your heart
"is simple for the heart to be filled, the hard part is keeping it"
as time passes the flame may decreasse but it'll always be there
this is were u realize something important
when the flame is almost out, and uve done what u think is everything u see the real person infrot of u
their flaws their weeknesses and u start to realize of what uve been through with this person if hes the one
putting love aside
"love is blind"
ones u dont see it and u see the true person u might think hes not what uve expected
love makes ur mind blind.
my theory:
as u and ur love progress there are things left behind.
i call them sand print, concreat steps and steel steps.
sand print~ something that will be left in someones mind for sometime
concreat step~ an action, effection, or something of some sort that will be remberd by ur partner that cannot be broken ezly
steel step~ something both reacognize that is almost impossible to be broken and if it ever was will still be a momery u will never forget.
these things are being made in a relatiionship as u progress. love can go through these steps on the of main and important one. it can be a sand print that ur parter knows and smiles about the spark of a relationship. a concreat step u show how much u love them and that ur serious. a steel step that ive made with me and my love this step was hard to achive but is when u can say to ur love face to face "i hate u, i dont love u, i never loved u and i never want to be with u" and u'll know deep inside that he or she is lieing.
keeping a love is hard and is hard to keep the flame going and sometimes ur despret why that falme is no longer there. at that point if ur lucky. u'll recognize all that uve been through and u can look at that person and know that at that night he will not say i love u. he will not kiss u good night. nor will he give any sigh of love. u'll see these affections of being romantic for example, writing your loved one poetry and giving cute gifs like giving ur loved one a dozen roses with a fake one inside with a note that says"untill all the roses that ive given to u dry and die will my love for u fade away". these things are important for a relationship and when u dont have them but u know deep inside that they love u. then right there uve experienced true love.
this is when that gurl is right were no matter if u have a messy hair and look just icky when u wake up and the dude smiles and kisses u and thinks ur still the beautifulles gurl in the world. this is true love.
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